# I'm so tired and I messed up at work 😩

**URL:** https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307
**Category:** Living with sleeplessness
**Created:** [1 February 2022 09:51 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307 "2022-02-01T09:51:17Z")
**Posts on this page:** 17
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### Author: ![kat](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/kat/32/264_2.png) [@kat](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/kat)
#### Post date: [1 February 2022 09:51 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/1 "2022-02-01T09:51:17Z")

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I haven’t really slept for 3 days and yesterday I made a mistake at work .I’m so mortified as pride myself on double checking myself and re checking … I work in a residential home for adults with mental health issues. It’s vital everything is perfect.  
I messed up some paper work 😩…today I’ve had to say to my boss that I can’t administer medication,as I can’t even see straight as so tired.  
I feel so low and disappointed in myself…I know this is all due to lack of sleep.  
I think its time to see the G.P …feeling so sad 😞

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### Author: ![alexwalkerjones](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/alexwalkerjones/32/11_2.png) [@alexwalkerjones](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/alexwalkerjones)
#### Post date: [1 February 2022 10:18 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/2 "2022-02-01T10:18:42Z")

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Hi Kat, I’m so sorry that happened.

It’s got to be one of the worst feelings in the world, especially when you’re someone who cares about your work as much as you clearly do - but make sure not to keep beating yourself up about it!

People on 8+ hours of sleep still make mistakes (and ones bigger than yours too!), and I think it’s safe to say you wouldn’t be in this type of job if you weren’t someone who really, truly cares. 💙

Lack of sleep is invisible to most but it doesn’t make it less real than any other health concern - and especially so when it comes to the aspects of day-to-day functioning it can affect.

All this to say that you deserve a lot more grace than you might be giving yourself right now! Take care of you and my fingers are crossed for you for some better nights ahead. x

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### Author: ![Kaveh](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/kaveh/32/59_2.png) [@Kaveh](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/Kaveh)
#### Post date: [1 February 2022 12:20 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/3 "2022-02-01T12:20:02Z")

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How are you feeling now @kat ? What’s so incredibly amazing is your sense of responsibility towards the care and compassion you show to the folks of the residential home. I am confident that if your boss is worthy of you she or he will do everything in their power to support you towards regaining your balance xo

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### Author: ![jacquelinecannon1](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/jacquelinecannon1/32/729_2.png) [@jacquelinecannon1](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/jacquelinecannon1)
#### Post date: [1 February 2022 13:49 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/4 "2022-02-01T13:49:44Z")

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So true xxx please dont be so hard on yourself,mistakes happen and your going to get this sorted out and your sleep I promise

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### Author: ![kat](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/kat/32/264_2.png) [@kat](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/kat)
#### Post date: [1 February 2022 15:49 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/5 "2022-02-01T15:49:01Z")

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Thank you everyone …I really feel terrible about it but hopefully I will sleep tonight and things won’t seem so bad tomorrow.  
My boss isn’t that understanding to be honest so that isn’t helpful but I didn’t want to make anymore mistakes, so felt it was best to stay well away from meds and controlled drugs …we are short staffed as 3 staff have covid .So isn’t ideal timing 😕  
Going to have a bubble bath and get to bed early, fingers crossed 🤞 …please god let me sleep !!!

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### Author: ![Grootette](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/grootette/32/146_2.png) [@Grootette](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/Grootette)
#### Post date: [2 February 2022 23:42 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/6 "2022-02-02T23:42:29Z")

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Hi Kat, I am so sorry that you are feeling so sad and hope that you had a lovely bubble bath and relax. Sending you lots of love and supportive vibes xx

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### Author: ![kat](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/kat/32/264_2.png) [@kat](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/kat)
#### Post date: [3 February 2022 06:24 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/7 "2022-02-03T06:24:32Z")

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Thanks again everyone, really means alot …I actually managed 5 hours sleep 🙌 …feeling brighter and way more positive ✨ 💛  
Xx

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### Author: ![Kaveh](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/kaveh/32/59_2.png) [@Kaveh](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/Kaveh)
#### Post date: [3 February 2022 08:03 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/8 "2022-02-03T08:03:01Z")

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This feels a lot like regaining that balance x glad to read your message @kat cause it’s going to make my day! Have a great morning! 🙏

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### Author: ![laurent.rossier](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@laurent.rossier](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/laurent.rossier)
#### Post date: [4 February 2022 23:04 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/9 "2022-02-04T23:04:24Z")

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Hello @Kat: how are you doing today? I hope you again managed to get some sleep? In any case: have a relaxing weekend; get some action in, get some fresh air and enjoy the moments!

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### Author: ![kat](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/kat/32/264_2.png) [@kat](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/kat)
#### Post date: [4 February 2022 23:10 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/10 "2022-02-04T23:10:27Z")

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Hey @laurent.rossier yes I’m doing much better, thank you for checking on me.I am managing about 5 hours a night in a row which is pretty good for me …I am working this weekend but I feel like I can fully function on 5 hours so I’m coping.  
Hope all good with u 🙂

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### Author: ![kat](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/kat/32/264_2.png) [@kat](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/kat)
#### Post date: [4 February 2022 23:11 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/11 "2022-02-04T23:11:08Z")

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Thank u @Kaveh means alot

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### Author: ![kat](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/kat/32/264_2.png) [@kat](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/kat)
#### Post date: [4 February 2022 23:13 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/12 "2022-02-04T23:13:06Z")

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Thank u@alexwalkerjones and @Grootette too …p.s just figured out how to use people’s tags !!sorry bit slow with tech haha

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### Author: ![laurent.rossier](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6bbea6/32.png) [@laurent.rossier](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/laurent.rossier)
#### Post date: [4 February 2022 23:23 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/13 "2022-02-04T23:23:10Z")

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Congrats @kat  
Keep it up and keep us posted 🙂

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### Author: ![dannytobin68](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/dannytobin68/32/150_2.png) [@dannytobin68](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/dannytobin68)
#### Post date: [5 February 2022 07:59 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/14 "2022-02-05T07:59:05Z")

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Sorry to hear that Kat but do what you have to do and I hope you feel better soon.  
Best wishes Danny

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### Author: ![kat](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/kat/32/264_2.png) [@kat](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/kat)
#### Post date: [5 February 2022 09:37 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/15 "2022-02-05T09:37:19Z")

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I’m ok @dannytobin68 things looked very bleak there for a few days but it was a wake up call really…I have to get sleep or my brain just won’t function properly.  
Think I thought I could just carry on and it wasn’t affecting my life but it is unfortunately 😕.  
I’m alot more positive this week ,thank u 🙂

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### Author: ![Grootette](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/grootette/32/146_2.png) [@Grootette](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/Grootette)
#### Post date: [5 February 2022 10:48 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/16 "2022-02-05T10:48:51Z")

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Hi Kat, well done for doing the tags! I don’t even know how to do that…lol! I can only just about reply to messages. Social media is alien to me. I use it sometimes but usually don’t really haven’t a clue what to do 😆 My 11 Yr old son is always saying…“Mum, come here…let me do it for you”…so funny. I just go with the flow and chill though and not let it worry me 😊 I might try and learn more one day though if i need to…maybe…

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### Author: ![kat](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/flex013/user_avatar/treehouse.sofi.health/kat/32/264_2.png) [@kat](https://treehouse.sofi.health/u/kat)
#### Post date: [5 February 2022 10:56 UTC](https://treehouse.sofi.health/t/im-so-tired-and-i-messed-up-at-work/1307/17 "2022-02-05T10:56:11Z")

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Haha !I’m the same @Grootette my son is 15 and is always laughing at me for not knowing what to do online .He helps me out if I get stuck.
