Why are relationships so hard

I dont understand how nothing goes right dating someone


Two different people, coming together with each their own life experiences is always going to be hard.

Patience and communication is key of course but even then it’ll never be easy.

I guess we all just have to keep trying and eventually we will find someone who has the patience to get to know us and for us to have the patience and understanding to accept that no one is perfect.


That’s such a good answer @vincent :hugs:

Hey :wave:t4: @ANGEL5
Relationships are always hard and something you have to continuously work at.
But one thing I always have to remind myself is that the other person is in their heads just as much as I am, and I’m not alone in how I feel, so all the more reason to have patience with eachother! 🩷
I agree with Vincent tho, communication is key!! :key:
I have actually even written and recorded a song about this exact subject :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:xx


Well, what’s stopping you from sharing the song! You’ve made me very curious now :slight_smile:


Ahhhhhh :face_with_peeking_eye::smiling_face: @vincent
I’ve just tried to upload it for you, but it’s saying it’s an unauthorised file :woman_facepalming:t4::woman_facepalming:t4:xx


Hmmm, if it’s on any kind of platform like sound cloud it should be fine with a link. Otherwise if it’s only possible as a file, let me know the extension (.mp3?) and I’ll see if I can add it.

We should certainly celebrate all the talent we have in the community! :raised_hands:


Bless you! @vincent :hugs::hugs::hugs:

It’s unreleased, so it’s not up on any platforms, but I have it as an mp3 file.

I’m a songwriter, so I’m not releasing them myself :hugs::hugs:xx


Alright, I’ve added mp3 to our list of files so you should be able to upload it. Maximum file size is set to 30720kb at the moment, so if it gives another error, it will probably be related to that. I’ll look forward to listening to the song! :slight_smile:


Ahh, Thankyou!!! :hugs:🫶🏽
That’s so nice @vincent

I’ve tried again, but it’s showing this message still :face_with_peeking_eye::woman_facepalming:t4:

The track is 6.5mb xx

Alright, adjusted things some more. Fingers crossed it’ll work now :crossed_fingers:


Oh bless you!!! :smiling_face_with_three_hearts::hugs: Thankyou!! 🩷 @vincent

It’s uploaded this time!! :raised_hands:t4::pray:t4:

I hope u like it after all this trouble you’ve gone to :face_with_peeking_eye::joy::joy:

It’s about trying to explain to someone you’re having a relationship with that you have anxiety, and just trying to communicate to them why you are the way you are and how it affects you :hugs:xx

I have lots of others, i try to always write about life experiences/relationships, as people can always relate, and if they help even 1 person to not feel so alone, then I’ve done my job :white_check_mark::smiling_face_with_three_hearts:xx


W00t w00t!

Really impressive @JustLau5! :clap: :clap: :clap:

So fun to have a undoubtably rising star in our midst :dizzy:

Great song writing, nice beat behind it and a beautiful voice. And best of all, very on-topic :blush:

Thank you so much for sharing. I hope everyone has a listen :headphones:


Awwwwww Thankyou! That’s so lovely! @vincent
Glad u liked it after all the effort u made for me to upload it 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

If you’re interested I can send u some more over to have a listen to? :hugs:

I was recording an album to put out myself after ghost writing for about 15 years, but unfortunately, I was struggling with my voice when I was recording. I’ve been to see a specialist and unfortunately, I have just been diagnosed with nodjules on my voice box! :woman_facepalming:t4:

It was a massive knock to my confidence and I had to make either the heartbreaking decision to just continue writing for other people, or have an operation which would mean delaying release for 2-3 years! :pensive:

I work for an amazing urban music label tho, and as one door closed, another opened, and I’ve now been offered the opportunity to manage my own artists! :raised_hands:t4::pray:t4::smiling_face_with_three_hearts:
So am very excited for the next chapter in my life!

Thanks so much for showing an interest and for the amazing feedback, it’s much appreciated 🩷🩷🩷xx


This is so interesting, I would love to have studied this, I find people’s behaviour absolutely fascinating!!! Im a bit of an observer/people watcher myself, and began doing sociology and psychology at college, but I gave it up due to an opportunity with my singing, but I wish so much that I’d have carried it on!

And how lovely that u finally found your person, and was married to them literally a couple of weeks before I was born!!! 🩷🩷
I 100% believe in there being someone for everyone, it just takes some of us longer to find it. But you are living proof that it’s worth the search, 40 yrs of marriage and still going strong, that’s such an amazing achievement, and so lovely to hear, especially these days!
People are always looking for a better version of what they have, and are so quick to give up on relationships instead of appreciating and fighting for what they already have!
So congratulations to u both for making it work!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

I’m defo gonna have a listen to this ELO song too, Thankyou :hugs:xx